As a kid, I couldn’t wait to be “free!”

I am still waiting. I thought being free meant no responsibilities, no rules, could set my own curfew.

It turns out there is no such thing as freedom. Yes, I can set my own curfew, but at this stage in my life, I am usually home before the streetlights come on.

I learned freedom comes with significant amounts of responsibility and accountability to others.

Even our so-called free will comes with a responsibility to ourselves, our morals, and our code of honor. Free will says that you must first be true to yourself. What can you live with? What can’t you accept for yourself? You are still not free from parameters, rules, and obligations.

As we head off into the great Fourth of July celebrations, celebrating our freedom, we must do so responsibly and respectfully. Choose wisely and live courageously while you celebrate your interdependence.

Mary