Guess what I did the day after Thanksgiving?

Nothing.

Unless you count napping, reading, and skipping a shower.

I had planned to get the holiday decorations out, but my body said, “No.” And I listened.

That may sound like a luxury to some—the ability to give in to my desire to remain still. But I knew that it was mandatory. Struggling with productivity would likely have led to exhaustion, illness, and a very bad mood.

‘Tis the season not to ignore our limits.

Consider what is “extra” and does not need to happen, or that can wait. The best gift you can give and receive is to listen, making everyone else’s expectations second to your own limitations.

Shopping local is great, but choose online if it eases your burden. Bake less, rest more, or skip sending holiday cards—do what helps make the season more enjoyable and less stressful.

My decorations will be up by the time you read this, just not in the traditional day-after-Thanksgiving timing. And the world will have kept spinning, and my body will have kept on working.

Wishing you a leisurely paced holiday season.

Mary

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