I recently spoke with a client who had a rough year. He felt like walking away from a challenging situation, not of his making but still landing in his lap. Yet, something told him that there was valuable learning here and to hang in there a bit longer.

He was glad he did.

In a past work situation, I believed I could change things if only I found the right formula, the right spin, the right magic. It only required that I change other people’s perspectives. You can be sure that it did not work out well. It was time for me to go.

Whether it is your job or a personal relationship, knowing when to give up is tricky. 

Walking away is not about admitting defeat but recognizing a situation that is no longer for your greatest good. 

If you continue to learn valuable lessons, hang in there. If you are continuing to hit resistance or need others to change to make a situation work, move on. 

If you aren’t sure, schedule a time, and we’ll walk through it together.

Uncertainty and discomfort are a part of life. Constant dissatisfaction and despair are optional.

Mary