Are you curious to know more about your chosen family?  The one you were born into?

“Wait, what?  I chose my family?”

Yes, you did. We all did. Even in the most dysfunctional situations.

My husband and I have been siblings for many lifetimes, and this time, we decided to support each other as husband and wife. In our early years, people said we acted more like siblings, and now I know why. I also remember hearing a loud click in my head the day I met him and knew we would marry.

My oldest daughter came into this lifetime to let me be the mom for a change and for her to be patient with me. It’s a significant shift, but the dynamic works to make us both more sympathetic to each other’s role.

Then there is my son, who wanted to be an only child, a promise I’m sure I never made, but I think he thought he could convince me of upon arrival. (He was cute enough.) His sister was already in high school, so he probably figured he would be in the clear in no time. I believe we agreed to work together to learn to share our hearts and our toys.

Three years and two days later, my third and last child was born. She did not so much choose me as her mom as she did her vessel to get here. She arrived with a plan and asked only that I help her reach the peanut butter until she could make other arrangements. Unfortunately, she received more interference than she had anticipated, but we managed to make it work. And I am constantly in awe of what she accomplishes and how her creative mind works.

All have brought me different gifts, lessons, and supported me as much as I have them.

Do you know your soul agreements? Are you curious to know more about your chosen family?

Yes, even if your birth family is a nightmare, there was a contract in place and a purpose to be served. Exploring this often leads to gratitude, understanding, and appreciation for the lessons.

If you’d like to know more about your contracts and their purposes, schedule a time with me, and let’s find out.

Mary